If you have a new relationship maybe you are thinking how can you be so sure to the man you love, how can you be so sure if he is serious about you. We can’t avoid our self to ask that, right? especially if we’ve been mistreated to our last relationship. Now, let me give you some sign that can tell you that your man is getting serious about your relationship with him.
1. Introducing You To His Parents
Most men don’t want to introduce their girlfriend to their parents if they aren’t yet sure that their girlfriend is the one that they want to marry. If your boyfriend introduces you to his parents be happy because it means he is very serious to you. It is a good indicator that he wants you to meet people that important to him he is just stating to you how serious he is and how he loves you.
2. He’s Making Effort
Sending a text message and calling you every day and every night is not just his effort, he also visits you no matter how busy he is and no matter how far is his place to you. He even does an effort to surprise you because he wants to show to you how important you are. A simple effort but a big indication of how serious he is about you.
3. Open And Honest To You
He is very honest to you and open to everything, he doesn’t want you to think that he hide something that is why he wants to open his book to you and tell you everything about his life. He is hoping to build an emotional connection and strengthen the bond that two of you can share. If he wants to open up about his problem or dreams he is confident that your relationship is incredibly important to both of you.
4. His Friends Is Your Friends Too
He introduces you to all his friends because he wants you to know his friends are and if you can be friends with his friends it also helps to make your relationship strong. When he introduces you to his friends, it means he is hoping to incorporate you into the different aspects of his life in a significant way. Many couples become stronger because they have no problem to friends around them, they both can hang out with their friends and if they have misunderstood their friends are always there to help them, it’s good that both of you know his friends and he knows yours too.
5. Interested To Know Everything About You
He is interested to know everything about you even about your great grandma, he wants to know more about you and he wants to remember all important person to you, he also wants to know what makes you happy, because he wants to do it for you. You will be surprised he can remember everything you said to him about you but you don’t even remember if you already tell that to him. If your partner has no interest to know about you, it means he doesn’t care about you.
6. Sharing His Passion
He wants to teach you everything he knows, like a hobby or his favorite dish that he always cook. He wants you to enjoy what makes him happy, if both of you share your passion it’s easy to understand why he likes to do it, why he is crazy for that hobby. You will not get jealous of his passion if he spends time doing it, because you both can do it now together. And one of the most important aspects of a long-term relationship is sharing their passion whether both are interested in or enjoy the same things.
7. Keep His Promises
If he says something to you, he makes sure he will do it. He doesn’t want you to ruin your trust to him and he doesn’t want you to get worried if ever he didn’t do his promise. Keeping promise is the best sign of seriousness that men can show to their partner, by keeping promises he can prove to their partner how serious they are.
8. He Can Do Everything To Make You Happy
He always wants you to be happy, in a way that he even doesn’t stop you by hanging out with your friends. He let you do it because he trusts you and he loves you and most importantly he wants you to be happy. Whatever makes you happy he is also happy in return. Another example is giving you a gift that he knows can make you happy, he wants to help you in any way that he can. He is encouraging you to see just how serious he is about building your connection. Most men do it to their partner, they are not like a woman who can be happy to a surprise or gifts, most men happiness are only making their partners happy.
9. He Listens To You
You are lucky if your partner is listening to you, he is willing to turn off the TV, ignoring his phone just to listen to you. He’s clearly showing you that what you say is extremely important to him and that play a central role in his life. Listening to your partner is the fundamental component of a happy and healthy relationship. If he is listening to you no matter how nonsense your topic is it means he truly placing a major priority on your relationship overall. He wants to show to you that you can lean on him if you need him, you can tell everything you want to say because he will not get tired to listen to you no matter what.
10. He Wants To Spend Time With You
He can do ways just to spends time with you, you are his top priority he can do everything just to have time to be with you. Whether your time together is just watching TV or go on shopping it doesn’t matter because he is happy to do it with you, being together is simply better than being apart.
11. He Is Respectful
Being respectful is one of the best sign that your man is serious about your relationship, a respectful man can listen to you, can value you, can treat you equally and can acknowledge if he is wrong. A man who acts like a boss to you and wants to control you and never treat you fair has no respect to you if your man acting like that be alarm and think carefully if you need to find a worthy man for you.
12. He’s Giving Social Media Password And Deleting Dating Accounts
If your partner is not hiding anything and wants to get the full trust from you they usually give their social media password to their partner including the voluntary deletion of his dating online account. But for me deleting dating online account is enough, giving social media password is too much. It’s enough that he wants to offer it to you but remember that he also need some privacy, but it still depends on the couple, some like that way and some doesn’t care what important is they love and trust each other.
13. He Incorporates To Your Social Media
This small action is huge indicators that he is fully interested in you and very serious about a future with you. He may do an announcement to Facebook that you are officially coupled, and he may always upload photos with you or anything that people can see how serious he is.
14. He Wants To Marry You
This is the most important sign to see if your partner is serious to you. Who doesn’t wants to get married, of course, every woman wants to get married to the person they love. And if he asks you to marry him don’t hesitate to say yes if you are very sure to him. Men don’t hesitate to ask their partner to marry him if they are very serious and so in love with their partner because they can’t imagine life without their loving partner.
15. He Trusts You And Always Saying He Love You
Sometimes saying I Love You can be a bait or fake. If you want to know if your man is sincere and serious when he says I love you, take a look at his behavior. Action truly speak louder than voice, so be very observant. When his words and his actions scream ” I Love You” he is truly serious about your relationship. Most woman is blind when it comes to love. Saying I love You for them is enough without observing if their partner truly loves them. It’s not bad to use our heart but do not believe very quick by words, get some proof if the man you love is deserving to your love and trust. You can feel it if a man is sincere and real to his words. And if he loves you he also trusts you like the way you trust him.
I hope those sign can help you, as you can see there’s a lot of sign you can get if your man is getting serious about you. And always remember you don’t need to know the sign because you can totally feel it if he is serious about you. We all know that most men are lazy to do some effort to make you feel that you are special to him, some men don’t even take initiatives to text or call you if you had misunderstood. Many times woman do the first move to make everything OK. But it doesn’t mean men are not serious about you, you can still consider other sign in the list.
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