Cheating is the horrible nightmare experience of many couples, cheating can ruin your family, love, and trust of your spouse. Cheating can’t help you to have a wonderful family and a wonderful life, it can be a cause of bad karma at the right time and can totally lose your wonderful family. Many couples have this kind of problem and can’t save the relationship because it is too late when they knew that their partner is totally drowned in their sin. Here is some sign for you to know if there is something unusual to your spouse. Let’s get started.
Note: This sign is applicable to both men or women spouse.
Cellphone Sign Of Cheating
- Checking the cell phone all the time even you both are eating together or watching TV together.
- Taking more phone calls in private, and many times talking outside the house far away to you.
- Deleting all inbox message and call logs history.
- Setting a password on his/her phone or changing new password to his phone.
- Most of the name in his phone book are not familiar or not a people name.
- Bringing cellphone anywhere inside the house and even inside the bathroom.
- Buying another new phone with a new number.
- Hiding a cell phone when you are around.
- You are not allowed to touch his/her phone, if you touch it he/she will suddenly grab it to you.
This is indication and signs that your spouse maybe talking or texting somebody but if your spouse problem is just this, you still can easily avoid this problem because if he/she is not going outside to meet somebody it means they are just talking through cellphone and not yet meeting in person, you can still stop this while its not too late, maybe he/she is just bored or wanted your attention that is why your spouse entertain some text and phone calls from strangers or from old friends. Do something to avoid these problems, talk to each other and ask why he/she is doing it and promise to each other to be a better spouse to avoid this minor temptation.
Computer And E-mail Sign Of Cheating
- The computer has a password and no plan to tell you what is the new password.
- Buying a new laptop so you don’t have to share on one computer.
- Very active to social media which he/she doesn’t do before.
- You can see in his/her browse history some unfamiliar dating site or social media account of people you don’t know.
- Erasing his/her browser history.
- Stay up late in his/her computer without doing any work.
- Waking up early just to check the emails.
- Email in inbox and trash is always empty once you check it.
- He/she has multiple email address or social media account.
- He/she is always happy and smiling while chatting somebody but when you look who is she/he chats you don’t see anything because he already closes it.
This kind of sign is hard to figure unless you caught your spouse in the act chatting somebody, but all you have to do is observe and see if he/she is doing unusual through his computer. If your spouse is not hiding something from you there is no problem to share all his/her computer and social media activities with you. Watch to this computer and e-mail signs, if you see those sign its time for you to confront each other and fix the problem to save the relationship.
Suddenly Changing Of Lifestyle
- Very conscious to his/her face and even hair.
- Can’t go outside without spending time in front of the mirror.
- Changing clothing style.
- Go to the gym and wanted to achieve a good body shape which doesn’t matter before.
- Can’t go out without makeup.
- Always wearing sexy clothes or dressing differently.
- Always wearing trending clothing style and wanted to purchase it.
- Always wearing perfume.
- Suddenly changing the music style.
- Suddenly always going out with new friends that you don’t know.
- Suddenly has an interest in traveling with new friends but not with you.
If you noticed this changes to your spouse, I think you have to ask him/her why and what happen, all of a sudden he/she changed, what’s the reason of changes is it for you or for other people he wanted to impress. If you watch the movie “Unfaithful Wife” everything has changed to Richard Gere wife after she meets the young man in the city, and no matter how she avoids cheating his husband she can’t do it because she can’t resist the charm and attention she gets from this young man. Although the husband knew that his wife is cheating, he never confronts her because he is afraid to do it and he still believed that he has a strong relationship with his wife. If you can do something to stop your spouse to his/her wrongdoing, do it while early. Save the relationship if you can.
Changes In Attitude
- He/she stops going out with you or with kids together, the reason is busy and will do it next time.
- Always mocking you.
- Start the argument without any reason
- Blame you for everything.
- Talking about somebody all the time.
- Spending too much time on the computer than helping you with house chores.
- Being super secretive.
- Can’t look into your eyes when you say something about infidelity.
- Frequently going home late and always saying need to take overtime at work.
- Very defensive when you are asking something or talking something related to infidelity and to your relationship.
- Always angry and cranky even if you didn’t do anything.
- Always telling many reasons even if you don’t yet start to ask.
- Stop giving you gift or surprised which you both do it often especially if there is occasion.
- Stop laughing at your jokes.
Most couple didn’t notice this kind of changes because they have 100% trust to their spouse, even if they feel and see that there is something different to their spouse they choose to ignore it, And there are spouses that are very good in hiding their sin but they can’t hide their unusual moves and changes especially to their attitude. So guys, be very observant to your spouse and if you noticed the changes to their attitude no matter how small it is better to confront it while early, know the reason of their changes and still continue observing after the confrontation.
- He/she is no longer interested in making love with you.
- Suddenly wanted to request making new style or some erotic moves when making love with you.
- Suddenly become greedy and selfish in bed, doesn’t care if you get hurt or not.
- He/she shows reluctant to kiss you or even touch you.
- Always not in the mood to make love with you.
- Asking you to watch porn which you both don’t do before.
- Asking more sex or want to do it often.
It can really happen to some couples especially if your spouse is totally hooked and addicted to their mistress or boyfriend. If these things happened to you and your spouse, you better do something or confront your spouse. In unfaithful wife movie, all of these signs really happened to the couples but of course, it is just a movie, some maybe have their own reason why they are having an intimacy problem to their relationship and you are the only one can answer it.
Budget And Money Signs
- You find his/her credit card receipts have a lot of additional gifts that you didn’t receive.
- Always saying alibi that he/she can’t share to pay the bills.
- Always saying alibi that he/she can’t buy more food supply because he/she uses the money for more important stuff.
- You find in her credit/debit card statement that he/she always sends money to someone.
- You find out that your spouse withdraws money to ATM from an unfamiliar place.
- Can’t even afford to buy kid’s needs even if you know he/she is working hard.
- Can’t afford to give you allowance even just a small amount.
- Can’t afford to treat you and kids to any restaurant.
- Always get upset if you request to buy something for the house.
- You find out that he/she applied for multiple credit card but not for you or for your kids.
- Become stingy which he/she doesn’t do before.
Maybe this sign is not so major but if your spouse doesn’t do it before and he has a good paying job, you have to be alarm and know what is happening why he/she is doing it now, the major problem in this sign is sending money to someone and applying multiple credit because that is 100% evidence that your spouse is doing something behind you, about gifts he purchases you can ask yourself if he has mother or sister that need to send a gift and if none I think you have to be alarm.
Go With Your Gut Feeling And Intuition
Spouse especially women has a strong intuition when their spouse is cheating on them, there is no wrong to believe in your intuition because most of the time woman intuition is correct. But before you do something make sure your gut feeling is correct, and if you prove that you are correct don’t make another problem, confront your spouse and fix the problem don’t be like the husband in the movie of Unfaithful wife, he never confronts his wife and what he did is wrong which is confronting the boyfriend first which lead him to do a bad thing. I believed the first person you need to confront is your spouse, not the mistress or boyfriend. Because your spouse can’t cheat on you if he/she doesn’t like it, but they did it so it means your spouse like it too. Your spouse hurt you and ruin your trust because he means it. If your spouse loves you he should not attempt to try any temptation no matter what, period. But generally, if you can both fix the relationship go on and give another chance to your spouse for the sake of the love and your children. And if the relationship cannot be fixed maybe it’s time to move on and make things legal. And for sure when one door closes another door opens for you.
If you have any question or you have a cheating experience to your spouse or ex’s don’t hesitate to share it below if you want to share it.
All the best,